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5 Ways to Motivate Reluctant Readers

Young Woman and Girl Reading - by Jessie Willcox Smith
We all know why reading is so invaluable to a child's education, but how do we motivate them to read? There are many techniques available to teach a child how to read, but once that's done,  how do you teach a child to love reading?

Here are some techniques I've used with success with my kids:



1. To Be Continued...
I recommend a tip that was inspired by Hollywood: the "to be continued", or "cliffhanger" approach to reading aloud. Read exciting, engaging chapter books to your children, but make sure to stop your reading session at a point where it's exciting and they're anxious to know what will happen next. Close the book and tell them they'll have to wait until tomorrow to find out what happens.

Your kids may protest when you stop, but they'll be begging you to read and looking forward it with greater anticipation than they had before.

Also, make sure to leave the book in a conspicuous place once you're done reading for the day. You may see your children meandering over to the book and reading it on their own because they can't stand the suspense!

2. Turn on the Subtitles 
Take full advantage of any time they're watching TV or movies and turn the subtitles on, so that they have the opportunity to read during this normally more mindless past time. 

Next, try a show where the characters have strong accents, so they'll be more reliant on reading if they want to follow along. Finally, watch movies in a foreign language with English subtitles. Now they'll HAVE to read if they want to know what's going on.
 
Another advantage of subtitles: they'll be able to watch people pronounce words they are unfamiliar with.

3. Get Graphic
Don't be afraid of comic books! The exciting illustrations in books like the The Adventures of Tintin, or Calvin and Hobbes lured my son into reading the stories inside. Just like any other genre, comics books have a range of quality and age-appropriateness, but well-written comics will introduce children not only to imaginative story lines, but also dynamic art, advanced vocabulary words, and will engage even the most reluctant readers. 

More on why comic books are great: https://www.parentmap.com/article/comic-books-get-kids-reading

4. Don't Always Answer Their Questions
Kids love to ask questions we don't know the answer to. "Do spiders blink?", "What is the largest star discovered so far?", and "How much does a Narwhal weigh?", have all been asked in our house recently.  I typically have to go to the internet to find the answers to questions like that, however, I don't just read the answer to my kids' questions anymore. I find a "kid-ppropriate" website that contains the answer and hand it over to them to read over and find the answer themselves. The curiosity that sparked their original question will provide more of a drive to read and find the answer than you might typically see. In my experience, doing this usually leads to more questions, more searching and more reading. 

Also, great bonus lessons spring up during these Q&A sessions, such as how to safely search the internet for answers and how to differentiate between reputable sources and fluff websites. 

5. Go Digital
Some kids, like my oldest, LOVE electronics, and may be more motivated to read a story if it's on a kindle or ipad than in a traditional book. An added bonus is the on-board dictionary most of these devices have for kids to easily look up the definition of unknown words. Just beware of any games that might distract from reading on these devices.

This strategy can help beginner readers, too! Some early reading apps will pronounce unknown words for them when they touch the word, helping them build their sight word inventory.  (Our kindergartener loves the Dr. Suess treasury for iPad.) Obviously, apps like this shouldn't substitute for reading with you, but should be used as a supplement. It's always nice to have a little help!


Have any other tried and true methods for motivating your kids to read? Please share them with us in the comments below!

How Do I Teach a Doubting Child the Gospel?

  
Doubting Thomas - Caravaggio
     I had been having many concerns about teaching spirituality to my eldest son. My husband and I can pretty cynical, so not surprisingly, our son is too.
     I wondered how I was going to teach him in a way that he could believe it, when it doesn't come as naturally to me as I'd like.
      As I pondered my concerns one night, I turned on my computer and was about to search for any ideas on how others, especially psychologists recommended approaching the subject, however I suddenly got the impression that I should be turning instead to the One who knew best. After earnestly praying, I felt that I could turn to my scriptures/general conference talks for guidance. This is the passage I opened to through guidance:
      “Sometimes the most powerful way to teach our children to understand a doctrine is to teach in the context of what they are experiencing right at that moment. These moments are spontaneous and unplanned and happen in the normal flow of family life. They come and go quickly, so we need to be alert and recognize a teaching moment when our children come to us with a question or worry, when they have problems getting along with siblings or friends, when they need to control their anger, when they make a mistake, or when they need to make a decision.

     If we are ready and will let the Spirit guide in these situations, our children will be taught with greater effect and understanding.
     Just as important are the teaching moments that come as we thoughtfully plan regular occasions such as family prayer, family scripture study, family home evening, and other family activities.
In every teaching situation all learning and all understanding are best nurtured in an atmosphere of warmth and love where the Spirit is present.”
Teaching Out Children to Understand by  Cheryl A. Esplin

Quote: Motherhood

Mary Cassatt
“Motherhood is about raising and celebrating the child you have, not the child you thought you would have. It's about understanding that he is exactly the person he is supposed to be. And that, if you're lucky, he just might be the teacher who turns you into the person you are supposed to be.”
― Joan Ryan, The Water Giver: The Story of a Mother, a Son, and Their Second Chance